What is the best way to approach a person who you are attracted to at a book store, library, animal shelter or football game shown on TV at a bar? You can do it put your ass into it! uummm personally just don't say some cheesy pick up line.. yeah just be yourself  Kick her in the shin. She'll remember you next time. zap her with a fucking tazer and then drag her back to your place by the time she wakes up, she'll be chained to your bed and she'll HAVE to love you or you'll cut her food ration in half.