so another guy found you sexy.  so what? I guess you had to be there :/ I do community theater, where 80% of the guys are gay.  One time the director came up to me, wanted to make me feel uncomfortable, and said something like "hey big guy, so....boxers or briefs?" ... so to mess with him, I look at him and say "Neither.  womens" he says "Ooh, that's getting me all excited now."   I then return with "Look, it's no secret.  I may be strong enough for a man, but I'm made for a woman".  He laughed and walked away Lesson learned: The key to getting someone to stop creeping you out, is to out-do them.  :)